Coaching / Counseling Employees

Whether you manage a single team or an entire office of employees, you need to meet at least yearly with each of them to counsel about their performance. How you approach this task as well as how you communicate your observations and judgments of the employee's performance / behavior will have a major impact upon how they respond. This problem occurs most often when the manager focuses more on the specifics of the performance than on the employee.

Although most employees have enough survival instinct to respond positively on the surface to negative feedback, they may be defensive and resentful underneath and express that reaction once the interview is completed. That kind of response rarely leads to positive change and can result in poorer rather than improved performance following the interview. Worse, since people tend to complain to at least a dozen people when they are unhappy, it can even poison the atmosphere within the team or office. In fact, research completed by the Gallup organization demonstrated that if negative employees have actual contact with clients or prospects their negative feelings can result in the loss of those clients [see, Rath & Clifton, How Full is Your Bucket?].

To improve positive results when coaching or counseling an employee, consider using three effective tools as part of the process:

1. Determine first the reason for any substandard performance. Was it a matter of their not knowing how to complete the work properly? If so, get them the needed training. Was their performance substandard because of obstacles they couldn't overcome? If so, consider the possibility that removing those obstacles might be your job. Finally, was the problem a lack of motivation? If so, discuss it with them and try to determine the cause. Then develop an effective process to help the employee maintain motivation. Remember, one size DOES NOT fit all. What motivates you may not motivate them.

2. Negotiate expectations with the employee instead of just dictating demands. Demands almost always result in defensiveness and resistance. A negotiated settlement requires the employee to own the outcome and take responsibility for all future results.

3. Follow a few simple rules-of-thumb for giving feedback. For example, praise in public but rebuke in private.

As managers, when we focus primarily on performance rather than the individual we can actually hurt rather than help future results. Focus first on the individual and then on the specifics of the performance. For a free PDF copy of my article, "Tips for Coaching and Counseling Employees", go to my website at www.GretzConsultingGroup.com and register as a member.